I'm sorry to hear you had this experience on the feminism subreddit. I am an older generation feminist where the term has a different meaning than it seems to today. I appreciate your courage in posting there and I am glad to hear it does not define your experience with feminists. IMHO, this reflects another facet of divisiveness (cultivated by algorithms) that will not help anyone or heal anything. I hope we can begin focusing on what we agree on and build from there. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences here.